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14 posts from February 2008

February 28, 2008

Four Months Post Mortem Concepts

My grandfather died four months ago and very few days go by when I don't think about him. He left us a table that he made himself out of a tree that someone had cut down and was going to haul away. My mother grew up with the table and my aunt used to press so hard with her pencil that her homework is still inscribed in it.

The kids think about their great grandpa too. Last week I was in the car with Annabella and one of her friends. Her friend asked if we ever used the 6th seat in our minivan, which is usually folded down.

"We used to use it all the time," Annabella said, "when my great grandfather was alive. That's where he would always sit."

We often pass by my grandfather's house and whenever we do Milo or Huck will always say, "There's Great Grandpa's house!"

This morning when Huck said it, I asked, "Does Great Grandpa still live there?"

Huck said, "No. He's died. He's in the hospital. In a dentist's bed. He's having trouble breathing."

Well, that's almost all true.

February 23, 2008

Jumping Monkeys Episode 35: Oppositional Defiance Disorder

Amacom This week we interview Drs. Philip and Nancy Hall, authors of Parenting a Defiant Child.

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    Overheard at Preschool Drop-Off

    A tired mom gently bounces up and down holding her screaming 3-month old.

    Helpful Mom: You could try putting him up on the dryer.

    Tired Mom: I'm going to try putting him up on Craig's List.

    It's all in the eyes

    This morning Milo looked at the ice in his glass of water and then looked up at me and said, "That ice looks like you're eyes."

    Sure, he may have been talking about the shape of the ice, but I prefer to think that it's because I've finally perfected that icy stare I've been trying to cultivate for lo these many years.

    February 21, 2008

    Preschool Etiquette Question

    Hypothetically speaking, how should one respond if her almost three year old child has bitten his preschool teacher? A verbal apology, of course. But is anything further appropriate?

    An apology note?

    Flowers?

    A plant?

    February 19, 2008

    99 of our favorite books for kids ages 0-5

    I'm nearing my fifth year of parenthood and I've decided that this makes me a connoisseur of great children's literature. It's pretty simple, really. The perfect book must both appeal to a child and not make a parent's head explode after the fifth reading. I don't like books with preachy morals, but I don't mind a lesson with my lit either. I like a combination of short and long books, for obvious reasons. Illustrations are key, but once Annabella turned 4, they no longer needed to be on every page. I've spent some time compiling our favorites.

    What are yours?

    1. The Lorax by Dr. Seuss
    2. Make Way for Ducklings by Robert McCloskey
    3. Zen Shorts by Jon J. Muth
    4. Charlotte's Web by E.B. White
    5. The Trumpet of the Swan by E.B. White
    6. Blueberries for Sal by Robert McCloskey
    7. One Morning in Maine by Robert McCloskey
    8. Crow Boy by Taro Yashima
    9. Sylvester and the Magic Pebble by William Steig
    10. Where the Wild Things Are by Maurice Sendack
    11. Umbrella by Taro Yashima
    12. The Sneeches by Dr. Seuss
    13. Love You Forever by Robert Munsch
    14. How the Grinch Stole Christmas by Dr. Seuss
    15. In the Night Kitchen by Maurice Sendack
    16. Hug by Jez Alborough
    17. Oh the Places You'll Go by Dr. Seuss
    18. Library Lion by Michele Knudsen
    19. The Empty Pot by Demi
    20. Corduroy by Don Freeman
    21. The Clown of God by Tomie dePaola
    22. Cars and Trucks and Things That Go by Richard Scarry
    23. The Giving Tree by Shel Silverstein
    24. Caps for Sale by Esphyr Slobodkina
    25. Pierre by Maurice Sendack
    26. Fish is Fish by Leo Lionni
    27. Ramona the Pest by Beverly Cleary
    28. Ramona and Her Father by Beverly Cleary
    29. Henry Huggins by Beverly Cleary
    30. Little Blue and Little Yellow by Leo Leonni
    31. Beezus and Ramona by Beverly Cleary
    32. The Paper Bag Princess by Robert N. Munsch
    33. Knuffle Bunny by Mo Willems
    34. A Bargain for Francis by Russell Hoban
    35. The Little Train by Lois Lenski
    36. The Little Airplane by Lois Lenski
    37. The Little Fire Engine by Lois Lenski
    38. Goodnight Moon by Margaret Wise Brown
    39. The Mouse and the Motorcycle by Beverly Cleary
    40. Harry the Dirty Dog by Gene Zion
    41. Ramona's World by Beverly Cleary
    42. Are You My Mother? by PD Eastman
    43. The Little Engine that Could by Watty Piper
    44. Owl Moon Jane Yolen
    45. Eloise by Kay Thompson
    46. The Cat in the Hat by Dr. Seuss
    47. Five Little Monkeys Jumping on the Bed (Obviously) by Eileen Christelow
    48. A Color of His Own by Leo Lionni
    49. Where The Sidewalk Ends by Shel Silverstein
    50. A Light in the Attic by Shel Silverstein
    51. Good Night Gorilla by Peggy Rathman
    52. Chicka Chicka Boom Boom by Bill Martin Jr.
    53. We're Going on a Bear Hunt by Michael Rosen and Helen Oxenbury
    54. Skippy Jon Jones in Mummy Trouble by Judy Schachner
    55. Carl's Afternoon in the Park by Alexandra Day
    56. Ruby the Copycat by Margaret Rathmann
    57. Chicken Soup with Rice by Maurice Sendack
    58. Tacky the Penguin by Helen Lester
    59. Falling Up by Shel Silverstein
    60. The Missing Piece by Shel Silverstein
    61. I Was So Mad by Mercer Mayer
    62. Everyone Knows What a Dragon Looks Like by Jay Williams
    63. Time for Bed by Mem Fox
    64. Humphrey the Lost Whale by Wendy Tokuda and Richard Hall
    65. Richard Scary's Best Word Book Ever Richard Scary
    66. Curious George Goes to the Hospital by H.A. Rey
    67. Curious George Takes a Job by H.A. Rey
    68. Chrysanthemum by Kevin Henkes
    69. Brown Bear, Brown Bear by Bill Martin Jr.
    70. My Many Colored Days by Dr. Seuss
    71. Henry and the Paper Route by Beverly Cleary
    72. Dig Dig Digging by Margaret Mayo
    73. Fancy Nancy by Jane O'connor
    74. Fancy Nancy and the Posh Puppy by Jane O'connor
    75. Nurse Nancy by Kathryn Jackson
    76. Fire Truck by Peter Sis
    77. How Do Dinosaurs Say Goodnight? by Jane Yolen
    78. What Do You Want? by Lars Klinting
    79. Pat the Bunny by Dorothy Kunhardt
    80. Horton Hears a Who by Dr. Seuss
    81. Horton Hatches an Egg by Dr. Seuss
    82. Green Eggs and Ham by Dr. Seuss
    83. One Fish, Two Fish, Red Fish, Blue Fish by Dr. Seuss
    84. The Snowy Day by Ezra Jack Keats
    85. The Snow Globe Family by Jane O'Connor
    86. Madeline by Ludwig Bemelmans
    87. May I pet your dog by Stephanie Calmenson
    88. Olivia Saves the Circus by Ian Falconer
    89. Giraffes Can't Dance by Giles Andreae
    90. Alphabet Soup by Kate Banks
    91. I Love You the Purplest by Barbara M. Joosse
    92. Ramona the Brave by Beverly Cleary
    93. Bub or the Very Best Thing by Natalie Babbitt
    94. There's a Wocket in My Pocket by Dr. Seuss
    95. The Mysterious Tadpole by Steven Kellogg
    96. Frog Goes to Dinner by Mercer Mayer
    97. One Frog Too Many by Mercer Mayer
    98. Frog on His Own by Mercer Mayer
    99. It's My Birthday by Helen Oxenbury

    February 17, 2008

    Jumping Monkeys Episode 34: Dad Gone Mad

    Sepia_2 Our guest today is the hilarious Danny Evans of Dad Gone Mad. We chat about fatherhood, his writing, and to my silent amazement, his vascectomy. Check out this post if you're curious why he didn't read any of his blog on the show.

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    Christopher recommends Taking it Global.

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    February 16, 2008

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    February 14, 2008

    Happy Valentine's Day

    Here are a few scenes from our valentine workshop. Having 3 kids in preschool also means making 56 homemade valentines.

    Vive la Glitter!

    First, take a look at the Valentine Workshop that Annabella and I set up while the boys were at school.

    Next, have a look at what happened when they came home from school. Let's just say that they're idea of "arts and crafts" consists of throwing everything all over the carpet, pretending to eat it, and then trying to cut Annabella's hair with the craft scissors.

    Happy Valentine's Day.

    February 12, 2008

    Tattletales

    It was one of those Murphy's Law mornings and I was wavering between calling an adoption agency and just walking out the front door and letting them fend for themselves.

    I was trying to brush Annabella's hair and she was squirming and whining. They say that when adolescent girls turn against their mothers it's completely natural. It's all part of a healthy separation. But I'm convinced that it's because mothers are the ones that have to force their daughters to sit still so they can brush the knots out of their hair every morning for the first half decade of their lives.

    Let's step back a moment. Before I sat Annabella down for hair torture, I had patiently asked Huck seventeen thousand times if had to go to the bathroom and each time he insisted that he did not. I'm in the middle of working out the last knot when Huck walked up to us and smiled and said, "I just peed in my pants."

    That's when I slammed Annabella's hairbrush down on the carpet and it broke in two pieces.

    Silence.

    It's hard to tell who was the most surprised by this. There was a general shock and awe all around. I apologized to everyone for losing my temper and calmly took Huck to the bathroom, reassuring him that "accidents happen" and that my frustration had nothing to do with him forgetting to tell me that he had to go to the bathroom. Then we went about our day hoping that we could all put this momentarily lapse behind us.

    Yeah, right.

    That night after Marco and I put the kids to bed and we were cleaning up the living room, I found the sad pieces of the broken hairbrush.

    Me: Did you see what I did to the hairbrush?

    Marco: Yes, and I got a full report from each of the kids on how it happened. Annabella said it happened because you lost your temper. Milo said it happened because you were "frusterrrated" (he pronounces the word with four syllables, as Milo would.) And Huck said it happened because he peed.

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